heisst das Buch von Elisabeth Badinter, das zur Grundausstattung einer feministischen Studentin gehoerte. Ich habe mein Exemplar noch, vielleicht sollte ich es jetzt, wo ich selber Mutter bin, noch einmal lesen.
Welche Art Aggression steckt in einer Mutterliebe, die ihre Kinder in den Tod schicken moechte? Suicide bomber’s family: „We’re very proud of him“
The mother of Muhammed Faisal Saksak, the 21-year-old suicide bomber who carried out Monday’s attack in Eilat, said she was aware of her son’s plan to blow himself up and that she had wished him „good luck.“
The mother of nine said she was proud of her son for carrying out the suicide attack. „I pray to Allah that Muhammed will be accepted as a shaheed [martyr],“ she said shortly after hearing about the Eilat bombing. „I hope that his martyrdom will deliver a message to the Fatah and Hamas fighters to stop the fighting and direct their weapons against the one and only enemy – Israel.“
Ruwaidah said she was prepared to „sacrifice“ all her sons „for the sake of the Aqsa Mosque and Palestine.“ (…)
Bei Dr. Santity finde ich Erklaerungsansaetze Where Have All The Mothers Gone?
Women subjected to institutionalized, societal abuse (such as what we saw under the Taliban; and what we see to a greater or lesser extent in almost all Islamic countries–where physical abuse is sanctioned; where women are sexually demonized; where they are deprived of education, as well as physical, social, economic and political freedom) are hardly in a psychological position to be able to provide effective „nurturing“ to children.
Women whose own aggressive impulses have been savagely constrained by society and who have few options to sublimate those impulses, are at grave risk of encouraging aggressive and violent „acting out“ on the part of their children on their behalf– especially the male child who must be seriously conflicted about his love for and identification with a lowly-regarded woman.
In other words, such women will hardly prevent inappropriate aggression in their offspring, when such aggression vicariously meets their own needs. And the male children will have to assert their separation and distance from the debased female that is their mother, as aggressively and violently as possible.
Uebrigens stelle ich gerade fest, dass Elisabeth Badinter die Tochter von Marcel Bleustein-Blanchet ist. Bleustein ist natuerlich ein juedischer Name und Blanchet hatte er sich als Nom de Guerre in der Resistance zugelegt.